Monday, 16 July 2012

Contact Established



 


He was sitting on a bench at a bus stop. I hesitated for a second or two before I hit the brakes and reversed my Peugeot.

The guy looked old and and lonely, but there was something resilient and even optimistic about him. 'He might talk', I thought.

I needed something to make up for the lost conversation which I thought I had booked for that afternoon. It turned out though that the would-be speaker couldn't face the history he'd witnessed or simply wasn't sure any more if he was on top of his memories (the excuse relayed by his daughter wasn't too clear).

I got off the bike, introduced myself and told him what I was after. ”Go ahead”, he said in a realaxed voice, which made me even more hopeful, ''What would you like to know?”. I told him that basically everything, but helped him focus: ”When did you first come here?” 

His answer made me forget all the stories that I could have lost in the village next door*, not that they were less interesting, usually quite the contrary, but because they we much easier to come by in these parts. His was endemic, and because of Wstern Imperialism, Hindenburg, Ypres, Haig, Clemenceau, Hitler, Chamberlain, Potsdam - in short: because the collapse of Western Civilisation - people who could tell stories like his were extremely hard to come by in these parts.

”In 1939”, was his reply. My heart skipped a beat. "My grandparents came to Dresden and brought me with them over here". I couldn't believe my luck. Germans are few and far between hereabouts after the last emotional send-offs in the early 1950s and information-wise each was worth their weight in gold.

We talked on and during the conversation I had a feeling that something important was happening. I was getting more than just the facts concerning one German boy's life, but I couldn't quite say what.

It was getting late. ”What's your name?”, I asked when I shook his hand.Jürgen"*, he replied.


 ”One day I'll be back”, I assured him before I left.

When I was cycling south-west, with die Riesengebierge looming on the horizon I thought thrilled: the first was that woman from S. who fell in love with a Polish guy after the war and decided to stay behind while all her family went to live across the new border, in the DDR; the second is Fraulein Pietsch who used to live in my teenage-years room (before me); and he is the third one. I know personally three local Germans now, and three meant a lot. One was just a toehold, two were a foothold and three – three are a solid basis on which I can build in my head a vibrant community; why, three is a whole society!

"Toll!", I declared to the discreet silhouette of the Schneekoppe. "Contact has been established."




*except the one I did hear, and quite by chance, about a Ukrainian man with a Polish wife who was told to kill her and their children when a bunch of Ukrainian Insurgent Army guerillas raided his village one day in 1944.

**I changed the name slightly, but the real one was as German as German names get, too.